Month: January 2016

Life with Twins – 4 months old

These cute dudes are 4 months old this week and pretty darn proud of it! This month has brought so much development that I can’t believe it has only been one month since I wrote their last month post.

Before I get to the little stuff, we celebrated Luke and Reid’s baptism earlier this month. We had such a wonderful day and I think our parish does a wonderful job making the ceremony held during Mass special for the families.

I was a little nervous that the babies wouldn’t really want to cooperate and when one starts crying… the other commonly follows! They really surprised us though and did amazing!

One of our only family of six pictures!

This month, Reid started rolling over. Luke watched him for a week or so and then decided that he wanted to have some fun too. Even though we have two older boys and have been through this before, it’s still a shock to set them down on the floor and look back to see them in a different spot!

They are playing a little bit by themselves with toys now and are more generous with their smiles. Seeing those smiles when they wake up in the morning is my very favorite thing. They are always waving their arms when they get excited hence the blur.

They are still nursing great and are napping well during the day. They wake up around 6:45 and snooze a little bit on the way back from dropping Caleb off at pre-K. They take another mini-snooze on the way to get him around 11:15 and then take a longer afternoon nap around 1:30. They aren’t sleeping through the night just yet and are still up at least twice but sometimes many more times. We’ve still been waking them both to eat when one wakes up overnight but we’re starting to think about easing our way out of that.

The boys had their hip ultrasounds this month and results from those were normal which is wonderful. The procedure itself was not painful at all but a little awkward to try to keep them calm while the doctor was doing the ultrasound. I’m not sure if it was a matter of preference or what but the doctor performing the test, insisted that the babies were not only held completely still but also silent during the test. For example, if there was any crying or fussing even if they weren’t moving, he would get agitated and start over. That made the whole thing very stressful as you can imagine. There is no ability to reason with a 3 month old about why they need to be quiet. That part was a little strange.

Luke also went to see the ophthalmologist this month about the abnormality that our regular pediatrician saw in his eye. Thankfully, the ophthalmologist assigned to us was actually an old colleague of mine from when I worked in the lab. She was seriously such a blessing to us and reassured me with her words (but also just her presence) that everything was going to be okay. She examined him and found that the abnormality is actually a characteristic that is commonly seen in premature babies. She strongly expects that it will go away on its own in time but wants to keep monitoring it. However, she did notice during the exam that Luke also has clogged tear ducts on both his eyes that will also need to be monitored. She hopes that they will resolve themselves but said if they don’t by the time he turns a year old, he will need to have a small surgery to clear them.Certainly we never want issues to arise but I feel very comforted that she is our doctor and know that we are in good hands!

Huge month right? Happy four months to my sweet boys!

Hey 2016!

Happy New Year to all (officially!)  As usual, I’m already having issues remembering to write 2016 on everything. It was so nice to have a three day weekend and spend it hanging out with my little fam.  We did a TON of traveling over Christmas (over 700 miles in 3 days) so we enjoyed hanging low this weekend without any plans whatsoever except catching up on all the sleep. The babies apparently caught wind of that idea though and thought they would teach me a lesson on making plans with 4 kiddos under 5 in the house….

Our NYE was very uneventful.  My best friend and godson came to visit during the day so my crew skipped their ‘quiet time’ in the afternoon and lost their ever loving minds come 6:30 pm.  They willingly (!!!) went to bed early leaving Josh and I to snuggle the babies and ring in 2016 like the wild people we are.  Instead… this was me at 9:40 pm.  Whatever.

 

We spent Friday and Saturday digging through the Christmas presents we had unloaded out of the car in a sleepy haze and piled in the babies’ room. We finally put those away and took down our Christmas decorations.  Usually, it makes me a little sad to put all the bright and cheerfulness away for the year but this year I was SO, SO ready.  In our small living room we had crammed our regular furniture, two baby swings, more toys than you can imagine and a bigger Christmas tree than we have ever had before.  I was ready to have some sense of normalcy and walking space back.  Of course, I’d also had enough with the pine needles already.

Sunday we headed to our mall early in the morning to let the boys run off some energy before it opened for shoppers.  You can almost always find us there on a weekend morning in the heart of winter in Iowa because we all get cabin fever over here.  It was perfect because the cold kept even the mall walkers at home and we had our run (literally) of the place. We stopped by the hockey rink on our way out and my big boys were so captivated by the game that they forgot their crazy moods for at least 15 minutes and sat like quiet little angels watching. It was amazing.

 

We ended the weekend with Week 17 of football. Obviously the Bears have been out of this season for awhile but it was at least fun for us to watch the games that determines playoff matchups come down to the final minutes!

 

We have some super busy weekends coming up so it was really nice to take this one to just relax!

New beginnings

New beginnings doesn’t even begin to describe this past year for us.  We have experienced such change and flux from our normal and I’m extremely proud of how well we have adapted.  Fittingly, yesterday on the last day of 2015 I worked my very last day at my job and start today, the first day of 2016 as a new stay at home momma. I have conflicting emotions about leaving my job but most of all I am excited to close that chapter and start this brand new one today.  I don’t imagine it will be easier but I hope it is filled with more joy, less stress (or maybe just a different kind!) and more time to focus on those little people that really are the most important thing in my life.

When I was trying to come up with some goals for 2016, I immediately thought of all these books I wanted to read, opportunities I wanted to volunteer for, and all the hours I wanted to spend trying out new exercise routines to get back into shape. And then I laughed at myself.  I mean I hope that I can dabble in all of that sometime this year but let’s be honest. Those are not realistic goals for me to focus on this year during this crazy season of my life. There will be years for those things but this year I’m setting some more realistic goals that are just as important to me.

1. Prepare ourselves for mentally and emotionally for kindergarten and preschool.  Caleb will be starting kindergarten in the fall and Eli 3 year old preschool.  I love my big boys and know they will do wonderfully with what is ahead but I want to spend this year working with them on the things that will help them be ready.  Helping Eli be more confident with the potty and expressing himself with words.  Working with Caleb on letter sounds and his nerves about being at school all day.  And of course, working on preparing MY emotions for these big changes for my big boys.

2. Decide once and for all whether to move closer to our families or stay here.  For years, we’ve considered moving closer to our families for what seems like a million reasons.  We’ve always been one foot in, one foot out and it’s been a subject of constant discussion.  With Caleb starting kindergarten in the fall, I want him to start school in the place we plan to live forever.  I’m not sure if that place is here or there but I want us to decide.  Then make peace with our decision and move on.

3. Work into a better sleeping routine with the babies.  They are only three months old and are doing great sleeping- it could be SO much worse with two.  I do however hope we can ease ourselves into a routine of an earlier bedtime for them so Josh and I can have a little time to ourselves at night to hang out together alone while the littles are sleeping- to watch tv, pick up the house or whatever.  I think we are both missing that time.

 

4. Start my new role at home and make it work for me.  I’m excited to be home with my kiddos and get into a routine.  I find comfort in routine and look forward to starting our new one with me home.

5. Get more active. More exercise of course but I really mean just getting our whole family out of the house. We’ve been limited in our activities lately with two new babies and living in a cold weather climate. When we are faced with packing up all the boys, it’s so much easier to just hang around at home. I’m hoping as warmer weather hits in the spring we will be up and out of the house making memories as a family again.

 

6. Be intentional about time in prayer.  When I can start my day with even just a few moments of prayer, it makes me a more patient and purposeful person and mother.  I really want to try to start every day this year like that.  Even if I only have a few minutes.

 

Well that’s it. 2015 blew my mind. Bring it on 2016.